Thursday, October 29, 2009

Caden is two



My sweet little boy turned two today! He has brought so much joy to our family with his sweet smiles, hugs and kisses; you can't help but fall in love with him! I wanted to share with you a story by Max Lucado that I read to Caden tonight before bed. (It was one of his birthday presents).

Just In Case You Ever Wonder

"Long, long ago God made a decision- a very important decisions...one that I'm really glad He made. He made the decision to make you.

The same hands that made the stars made you. The same hands that made canyons made you. The same hands that made trees and the moon and the sun made you. That's why you are so special. God made you.

He made you in a very special way. He made your eyes so they would twinkle. He made your mouth so you could smile. He made your laugh so you could giggle. God made you like no one else.

If you looked all over the world- in every house-there would be no one else like you...no one with your eyes, no one with your mouth, no one with your laugh. You are very, very special.

And since you are so special, God wanted to put you in just the right home...where you would be warm when it's cold, where you'd be safe when you're afraid, where you'd have fun and learn about heaven. After lots of looking, God sent you to me. And I'm so glad He did.

I'll never forget the first time I saw you...your eyes were closed, your fingers were curled in two little fists, your cheeks were puffy and round. I knew in my heart God had sent someone very wonderful for me to take care of.

You first night with me, I heard every sound you made: I heard you gurgle, I heard you sniff, I heard your little lips smack. I heard you cry when you wanted to eat, and I fed you.

You're bigger now, and you do more things. You can walk and run. You can play and talk. You can eat and sing and look at books. You are not a little baby anymore.

But as you grow and change, some things will stay the same. I'll always love you. I'll always hug you. I'll always be on your side. And I want you to know that...just in case you ever wonder.

Remember I'm here for you. On dark nights when you hear noises in your closet, call on me.

When you see monsters in the shadows, call me. On hard days when kids are mean and don't treat you like they should, come to me.

If your grades are bad and your teacher is made, come to me...'cause I love you. And I always will, just in case you ever wonder. Most of all, I'll teach you about
God. He loves you. He protects you. He and His angels always watch over you.

And God wants me to make sure you know about heaven. It's a wonderful place. There are no tears there. No monsters. No mean people.

You never have to say "good-bye," or "good night," or "I'm hungry." You never get cold or sick or afraid.

In heaven you are so close to God that He will hug you, just like I hug you. It's going to be wonderful. I will be there, too. I promise. We will be there together, forever. Remember that...

Just in case you ever wonder."

Sweet Caden, I want you to know that Mommy and Daddy and Hannah love you SO much! But, Jesus loves you even more. He sent his son for Caden James Wassenaar! Please never forget how precious you are to him. You are a child of the King!

Saturday, October 17, 2009

30

My husband turned the big 30 this week and it got me thinking about how blessed I am to have him in my life. So here are 30 things I love about my husband.

1. He makes me laugh
2. He puts others needs before his own
3. He helps me not take myself to seriously
4. His muscles :)
5. The smell of his cologne
6. He loves the Lord with all his heart
7. His intelligence
8. His work ethic
9. His discipline
10. He never gives up
11. He plays with our kids
12. He helps me clean the kitchen after dinner
13. His hugs
14. He's organized :)
15. He lets me hang out with my girl friends and doesn't make me feel guilty for leaving him with the kids....again
16. He supports me
17. He provides for our family
18. He leaves me notes to tell me how much I'm loved
20. He's athletic
21. He leads our family
22. He just holds me when I cry and doesn't try to fix my problems
23. His eyes
24. He cried when our kids were born
25. He trusts me to make decisions
26. He loves to read (we're both nerds that way)
27. He prays with me
28. He's loyal
29. His hands
30. He listens to me

Thursday, October 15, 2009

I hate when that happens

Today was clipping along quite spendidly. I woke up early and made french toast for my husbands 30th birthday. Then I decided I should clean my house because, I am not joking one bit, I have not cleaned in probably a month! I know! That is SO gross...I'm normally such a clean freak, I'm just feeling highly unmotivated to clean our rental. So, I clean the house and then hop in the shower. Before I get in the shower I decide I need to blast some music, something I haven't done in quite a while. I head TO the shower, singing away my praises to Jesus. Caden comes in to play while I'm showering which he normally does. So now Caden and I are jamming away, singing at the TOP of our lungs.

Suddenly Hannah walks in holding a bag I've never seen before.

"Where'd you get that Hannah?"

"Oh, Alison gave it to me!"

"What?????????" "Was she here?"

"Yeah, she just dropped off the pictures."

"Hannah, was mommy singing when she came?"

"Yeah."

"Loud??"

"Yep."

"OH NO!" "HANNAH, DON'T YOU KNOW YOU NEVER OPEN THE DOOR FOR PEOPLE WHEN MOMMY IS SINGING NAKED IN THE SHOWER!"

Friday, October 9, 2009

It's looking like a house


view from the back

Caden's room

looking from the kitchen/dinning room to the living room

entry way

Here are the most recent pictures of our new house. The sheet rocking is almost complete and it is actually looking like a house. I am especially pumped about the vaulted ceiling in Caden's room. He has the smallest bedroom in the house and it just feels a ton bigger with a high ceiling.

Wednesday, October 7, 2009

House: Kitchen Cabinets/Paint

I talked with our stain guy today and am feeling MUCH better about our kitchen cabinets. We are getting Birch cabinets but we really wanted them to be a dark brown color. I was getting nervous about them b/c our house is going to be complete in less then 6 weeks now and we haven't even finalized our stain colors. Dick, the stain guy, was very helpful and is going to make me samples of stain on birch wood so I'll know exactly what they'll look like. We're also still deciding on what kind of paint to get. If we upgrade from flat to Semi-gloss it's an additional $1700. Yeah, steep price huh? So, tell me what you think, do we go with just flat paint which is easier to touch up, or do we spend the extra money for semi-gloss which is easier to clean?

I'll try to post pictures later this week of the house progress. It's fully sided and insulation is going in. I haven't been by to see it in over a week so I'm hoping I'll get a chance soon! I can't believe we're so close to the end! I can't WAIT to be in that house!